What keeps you unhappy and how to turn it around

Every now and then I catch myself being dissatisfied with my situation, even though I have just made a major breakthrough or achieved really great goal that I did not even expect. In those moments I remind myself that the way I feel is directly correlated to my background conversations with myself. They are in the background, so they are not "visible", therefore easy to miss. The first thing I look into is what I am telling myself that is definitely not true, but it seems it is. And it usually is one of those:

  1. Why do I need to do it? (referring to whatever project I'm working on right now)
  2. Again that boring work!
  3. I should be doing something else.
  4. There are some more exciting things to do.
  5. I could be lying in bed now!

And it goes and goes, until it becomes boring. Once I identify those conversations, I start feeling much better, and I start telling the truth to myself to put me in touch with reality:

  1. No one is forcing me to do anything.
  2. I'm going to that office, because I have chosen to, even though I don't feel like going there now.
  3. When I train martial arts, I experience similar mental challanges, but I keep going and I get great results in the end.
  4. I don't know for sure that if I were doing something else I would be more sattisfied right now, and even if I did, it would not last for long.
  5. The way I feel can be changed right now if I really want to.

Once I get hold of the truth, I choose to experience joy and happiness, which can be done any time, right here and now. Watch my videos on experiencing joy to learn how to do it. 

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jkjgo0a7Gko[/youtube]

 

Now that I'm happy and joyous, I start creating conversations that will inspire me right here and right now, e.g.:

  1. I can be happy right now without any conditions, circumstances etc, so I choose to be happy no matter what.
  2. Now that I'm happy and fulfilled, I can just be with whatever there is, because life is always like that. It just is, and we can choose to be happy with what is.
  3. Today I create the possibility of being loving, inspiring and vital, in all circumstances. 

Etc.

It's really east and the power is yours. Just keep practising until it becomes a habit.

If the above does not work, I check my integrity, but I'll tell you about that another time 🙂

Cheers

Kamil

 

About Kamil K. Wawrzyszko

“My mission is to help everyone solve all the life’s challenges in minutes or seconds, and to help create a life of love and inspiration for everyone, so that immediately there is more love, freedom and fun on our planet.”

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